"We’re flawed, all of us, and hoping to find an ideal person is not only pointless, it’s also dehumanizing to people to expect them to meet your ideals. All you can realistically hope for are people who are self-aware enough and responsible enough to try to keep their frailties in check." ~ Carolyn Hax
A good message to remember. You don't have to be perfect and you don't have to look for perfection. All you have to do is try. Be aware and be kind.