I keep having this bird's eye view of human behavior:
person A: I don't like x. Stop doing it. (Where x is teh crazy, or mean or shitty or condemning or moody or inflexible or whatever behavior.)Isn't it just easier to stop doing the thing person A hates?
person B: Noooooo!! (Justifies reasons to keep doing x, why x cannot stop, why you're wrong to dislike x, whatever. May even "gaslight" to get you to quiet down.)
person A: I'm really unhappy because X keeps happening.
person B: [head in sand]
person A: I'm leaving.
person B: WHAT???