Tuesday, October 23, 2012

meh, finalized.

We talked. It's over. I ended it. But my instincts were correct.

I just deleted my online dating accounts. I don't want to date anyone anymore right now. I will spend the winter reading novels. Fuck love.

You know, we weren't emotionally attached so why do I feel so shitty?


  1. THe loss is real. The (feeling of) hope being dashed are the heart strings stretched, as they (your heart, mind and spleen) were open to change, to a new possibility.

    Love is a by product and should not be "the" goal. Rest your heart (mind, spleen and the rest of you)

    The most terrible advice I could give you right now is, "The time that you make for yourself, to be comfortable in your own skin, and confident in yourself...that you are least likely to need a relationship and most likely to stumble into one. Confident independent women are the most attractive IMHO."
    - M.O.

  2. Gah. Sorry you're feeling shitty.

    But proud of you for taking the steps you need to and not passively letting others steer you.